The Pew Research Center found that in 2005-2007, in spite of Hurricane’s Katrina and Rita in 2005, close to 65 percent of people born in Louisiana still lived in their home state (Texas ranked number one with 76 percent). See the Pew Center study here: http://pewsocialtrends.org/2008/12/17/u-s-migration-flows/.
It means the people at your favorite po-boy shop have probably been going there for years. It means your elderly neighbor probably can tell you the history of most everyone on your street. It means you’ll see more than just transient college students at your favorite coffee shop. It means you’re likely to see some of the same people at the grocery that you also see at the coffee shop and the book store.
So how do you get connected with some people in your tiny corner of New Orleans? It’s simple. Just walk out your door.
Spend some time outside your house. Work in the garden. Wash your car. Go for a walk. Let your dog escape into the neighborhood (Well… maybe that’s not the best strategy).
Pick a restaurant. Find a locally-owned restaurant that has good food that you can afford and go there several times a month. You’ll get to know the staff and they’ll get to know you.
Go to community events. Farmers Markets, festivals, jazz clubs, neighborhood work days. Attending these will help you become more familiar with your community – and faster.
Become a specialist. You may like jazz music, a local sports team, food, photography, theater or the local writing scene. Pick one of these and become an expert. And don’t be afraid to spend money and time. The relationships you’ll gain will be well worth it.
Find a safe place. Everyone needs a safe place away from home to go to when you need to rest and relax. New Orleans has tons of parks and cafes, and there’s always the Lakefront. You can bet that you’ll find others who enjoy the same safe place as you.
Keep your eyes open. As you go about daily life around your community, keep your eyes open for people you know. Despite its size, the New Orleans metro area really has the feel of a small town. If you watch out, you’ll see familiar faces wherever you go.
Geaux with a purpose. People long for community and togetherness. And you’ll find that if you just walk out your door into your community. But as you go, you also take something with you – the good news of God’s love. So go with purpose and with the confidence that, as God brings people into your life, he’s also bringing your into theirs – and for a reason.